So we’ve changed some stuff

I am reading a book by a pastor who saw his church grow from a few hundred to several thousand.

In it, he gives advice to another pastor.  He suggests that man do things differently than anyone else in his town does them in order to appeal to people in a different way.

The irony is that later in his ministry, that same pastor taught others to copy his model of ministry instead of being different.  As a result, those who followed him have become belligerently intolerant of anyone who doesn’t do things the same way.

It’s hard to break out of the imaginary prisons that others like to lock us into.

As we considered our city, the people who dwell in it and what it would take to reach out to them, we have made a few changes to our service structure.

We used to run our Sunday school buses on Sunday mornings starting at about 8:30 AM.  They would arrive on property by 10:00 AM and Sunday school would begin and go until 10:45 AM.  The morning service would start at 11:00 AM and dismiss around 12:20.  The buses would then drop off riders and return to the church by 1:30 PM ish.  For our bus workers, it was a five hour morning without a break.  We would then return for the evening service at 6:00 PM and go until about 7:20 PM.  Total time invested was six and a half hours on property not counting prep and drive time.

We’ve made the following changes and for the following reasons:

The buses no longer run in the morning.  This allows our families to rise, eat breakfast and come to church together when babies and young children are still in the home.  Mothers appreciate having dad around to help get the kids ready for morning service.

We have a morning service that begins at 10:00 AM and dismisses by 11:15 AM.  The best anyone can account for, the traditional 11:00 AM service was chosen to help accommodate farmers who had to rise and get chores done before breakfast and cleaning up for church.  We are a city church without a single farmer in our membership.  10:00 AM works much better for our families.

We have no Sunday school in the AM, but still have nursery and children’s church for babies through the sixth grade.

Our buses run in the afternoon.  This allows our bus workers to enjoy their morning and morning service in a peaceful, restful manner with their families.  It also helps our bus attendance.  When we ran in the morning, children were often not awake to catch the bus.  In fact, they preferred to sleep in.  This will prove even more beneficial in the winter season when it is still dark at 8:00 in the morning and the streets have yet to be plowed.  By afternoon, the streets will be plowed, children will be awake, out of bed and about their day.  We have even had new riders come on the bus who previously did not for the same reasons.

Sunday school begins promptly at 5:00 PM and dismisses at 5:25 PM.  This is half the time we used to take.  Many of the children we pick up are ADD and ADHD.  They tend to have short attention spans and some even deal with behavioral disorders.  A twenty-five minute class is more reasonable for both the kids and the teachers.

At 5:30 PM, we start what we have dubbed “Night Church.”  Night Church runs from 5:30 PM and dismisses right at 6:30 PM.  As in the morning, we hold nursery and children’s church.  The single hour long service is appreciated by the children’s church workers.  The teenagers come into the auditorium with the adults.  Night Church is a bit more lively and relaxed than the morning service by design.  Simply put, we have a good time.  Imagine that, enjoying church.

Since starting our new schedule, we have seen a noticeable attendance increase in every service.  Our workers have felt better rested, less stressed and enjoy their service more.  The bus riders have been a little more rambunctious coming in at night, but we believe the newness will wear off and they will settle down.

This may not work for everyone.  It may not please everyone.  One thing I have noticed, if you try a unique method on a foreign mission field, you are brilliant for addressing the culture.  If you try a unique method in the United States, you are a liberal compromiser.

I guess we’ll have to focus on pleasing Jesus.

Maintenance

Everything in life requires it.

Through the idleness of the hands, the house droppeth through.

If you don’t keep the grass cut back, the gutters cleaned out, the house ventilated, the faucets in use and the appliances functioning, the house will begin to deteriorate.

It’s not just houses, cars and stuff. It’s also people.

Marriages, kids, families and friendships all need maintenance too. If you don’t give any attention to these relationships, they also deteriorate.

Oh, yeah. Your relationship with God too.

Jesus’ message

Matthew 4:17 – From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.

Jesus’ message was repent.

Repent means to change direction, to turn around. If you’re putting on weight, repent and walk away from the refrigerator. If you’re broke, repent and turn away from the cash register.

Jesus was specifically talking about our spiritual condition. If you aren’t close to God, repent and turn toward Him. If you don’t know Jesus, repent and get to know Him. If sin is causing pain in your life (hint: it is), repent and turn away from it.

Turn from that which isn’t working for you and to the Lord.

If you think this blog is preachy, repent and go read something else.

😉

Production vs. consumption

We are all consumers.

Today, I have consumed a bowl of Count Chocula, some gasoline, some electricity, a chapter of a book, a television program and some of my daughter’s cupcake batter.

It’s the way of the world and how our economy works. We rely on each other to have the things we need.

But what is the ratio of our consumption to our production?

What are we bringing to the world to make it better and help people?

One life at a time

We live in a day when mass media is how word spreads.

It spreads to large numbers all at once when broadcast on tv or online.

We read of Jesus influencing multitudes.

We then take the task of trying to use mass media to reach the multitudes all at once.

This is not how the gospel spreads. The gospel spreads by individuals. Masses are not influenced. One person is changed and then he tells another. She then tells another who tells yet another.

Mass media is great at spreading untruths, slanted content and agenda.

Real transformation occurs one on one.

Character > talent

Zig Ziglar used to ask people what qualities they thought were most important in leading a successful life.

Invariably, they would say things like character, honesty, integrity, hard work, compassion, love, empathy and perseverance.

He then asked which of those things were attitudes and which were skills. Of the eight examples I just chose, all of them are attitudes. None of them are skills.

Seems like we should spend more time trying to develop the right attitudes.

Hey! You can’t park there

Every Sunday morning on the way to my prayer drive, I stop at VG’s here in Davison and get a coffee from the Starbucks.

Depending on the time I arrive, there is a guy who drives a truck belonging to a local landscape company there also. Instead of parking in a parking space, he pulls right up to the curb next to the entrance and parks. This is a traffic lane that runs in front of the store. It is also a curb painted yellow for its entire length and marked by no less than four “no parking – fire lane” signs.

It drives me crazy to see this guy parked there. I mean, who does he think he is? Is he better than everybody else? Why does he get to ignore the rules that everyone else is expected to abide by? Am I angry only because I would like to park there myself?

In the end, it doesn’t matter that he parks there. At least it shouldn’t matter to me. It’s not my store nor my rules. I wouldn’t park there if it were allowed.

How many things in life do we stress over other people’s behavior when it really doesn’t matter? When it doesn’t involve us?

Last time I checked, I was not promoted to manager of the universe.

My favorite verse of a hymn

Could we with ink the ocean fill,
And were the skies of parchment made,
Were every stalk on earth a quill,
And every man a scribe by trade;
To write the love of God above
Would drain the ocean dry;
Nor could the scroll contain the whole,
Though stretched from sky to sky.