I used to plan things for Shannon and I and wouldn’t give her the details because I wanted it to be a surprise.
Then it dawned on me one day that I was far more excited about what we would be doing than she was.
The anticipation of the event brought more joy than just the idea of a coming surprise.
I now tell her of the amazing things we are going to do together and we look forward to them with great anticipation.
It’s almost as good as the thing itself.